Support and encouragement. Subtlety is... an art... that may help you do this...
Praise positive behaviours and ignore negative behaviour and never, never, never... try to teach or suggest...
Watch her... get out of her way, you're in YOUR way, too... and let her grow in positive ways, by supporting and encouraging her as she does... And I say this with the greatest respect to you and your W... as you would, a child...
