And BC, let me say thank you for posting here. Talking to you, along with the advice I am getting from Eric and some others, is helping me as much as I hope it is helping you. We have a chance to help and lift each other and by helping and talking to you I am beginning to feel like I can get through this as well.


M 39, W 34
M 15
S 14, S 12, S 9, D 7, D 6
Separated: 7/2/2012
Served: 7/10/2012
Divorced 11/5/2012