I agree completely...the only thing making me want to go at this point is that my kids think I am going and they will be upset if I don't....I also don't want to lie to them and give some BS excuse for why I'm not going.
So I'm weighing that against all the very good reasons not to go. Tough one.
Tough position Navy. But at some point, you are going to have to be upfront and honest with your kids about the reality of the situation. No better time than the present IMO.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce