Seriously, I wrote a TON of stuff, did a whole red-fonted thing that would've made 25mlc proud. Talked about my own sitch, what worked for me, and elaborated on the distinction between how much time it takes for PIECING, versus you don't necessarily have to endure an open affair during that entire time. It was truly one of the best posts I've ever written.
Stuff happens for a reason. Losing it prompted me to just say "F-it" and post my Transparency thread, which includes links to my ENTIRE sitch, in all its naked glory. Perhaps that's what was supposed to happen.
Happy reading. As you will see, I did NOT always use short posts!!