We have, since the date I wrote that "My Story," sadly fallen back into our old SSM ways. Our marriage is excellent in every other aspect, as we truly are best friends, partners, co-parents and now proud grandparents, and our bond has never been stronger. We just struggle with the whole sexual relationship thing.
I have a minority viewpoint on the sex thing. Why can't the both of you "just do it" and enjoy it? Seems so hard, like there is so many discussions that need to take place etc, etc. Sex is meant to be enjoyed and if you care about the person that makes it so much better. Also in DB-land we found it's an extremely fast way to bond, it's how the WAS gets so close to the OP so fast!
