Are you really gonna rest the fate of your marriage, on whether or not either of you have had a few drinks ????
You tell me what you think
Actually, I had thought about that....and I know it has certainly caused issues at times. I don't think it's a root cause but I do know it lets us both slip into old habits, and a lot of the work I've put into myself slips after 3-4 drinks. I can certainly do my part to exclude it.