I am really so impressed with you and how far you've come on this journey. You are an inspiration.

I agree on the advice from those around you. It's like one wrong turn of advice could set you in a tailspin. Controlling our thoughts and attitudes throughout all of this is really the hardest part.

Just know that the whole "I'm never sure I was ever INLWY." stuff is just a justification for leaving a M. Our spouses truly forget the feelings they really had. It's amazing to witness. You are a very strong human being and have had so much growth and determination it really is remarkable.

I continue to hope for the best for you.

Me: 32 H: 32
M 9 yrs
#1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2
Bomb 8/12/11
H moved out 8/14/11
PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12
Got my own place 8/25/12
H & OW move in together 9/15/12
Still married.