Starsky, thanks for posting your timeline, I hadn't seen all of that. There was a strength and certainty in the way you responded, which was probably as important as what you did and said. (I imagine it wasn't as easy as you make it sound....) Getting that strength and certainty is what I'm after, maybe what others are after. It's some of what the beginning DB steps are about, I think. And maybe the reason we all progress at our own speeds....
