You totally missed the point her. No surprise. . . .
it's the same thing - you are still just putting a label on it to suit your particular need. . . .
Harrier,
And what "need" would that be? Not sure what you see in Chatterbug's agenda; I see someone trying to help and pay forward some of the wisdom acquired along the way, so I'm not really sure where the antagonism is coming from.
Wherever you come down on the whole "snooping" scale, I do think that people on all sides of the issue are well-intentioned and advocating what they are in the hopes of trying to save the marriage, and protect the family.
