Is it natural for people to talk to their friends before their spouse about R and M problems ? I feel like W should have come to me first
Try not to read into EVERY action she takes. Also, I think I've said this before, change how you look at stuff. For example...
Consider that maybe she did not talk to YOU becuase she did not want to ALARM YOU. Maybe she wants to try and sort this stuff out and needed a GF or family member. You continue to think doom and gloom and that is going to make DBing very hard.
So what did she say last night?
Are you trying to be positive and upbeat? Are you planning anything for YOU to do? From you post it appears as if you are waiting for the bomb to drop. If so, STOP it dude.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
