Two steps forward and one step back. Dinner ended up being a bust about half way thru, which was probably due to the wine pairing in part. She started talking about OM, and I got upset and said something she didn't like and then we just slid into the same old arguments and continued them thru dinner and all the way home. She dropped bomb again and slept in spare BR.
Some discussion this morning that is positive, but W feels like we're back at square one. I put together a list of what I was willing to do and what I wasn't willing to do and shared it with her, also provided her the same format in case she wanted to do the same (she didn't). It helped me wrap my own head around my boundaries and actions I want to take.
