So what were the reasons why his A may not work out? Take it for what it's worth...information.
Have you cleaned up and changed the negative behaviors that he initially complained about? Not the nonsense spew, but the real behaviors that you felt needed changing?
What were some of the things that made him attracted to the OW in the first place?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.