Forgot to add that if you look at the people who successfully DB'd. They had dropped all expectations of their WAS's coming back or reacting a certain way. They just didn't care what their WAS thought. It's at that point that you realize that the changes you are making, really are for you and their not fake or a ploy. Then that's when the WAS starts questioning if they really want this great person out of their lives.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.