Interpretation of MWD and DR regarding infidelity

[breakdownbill]

I'd go along with what Denver is saying here about people's good intentions and speaking from experience.

I believe that everyone here has good intentions. I became very good friends with a handful of members who began their journey right around the same time that I did. The BITS. Each one of them responded differently to different posters who give advice. One BIT might get offended by the hard line approach, while another might be completely fine with it. One might not get much out of the hand holding approach, while the other might find that extremely comforting.

It's really useful when you've got 2 or more posters who are looking at your sitch from different angles, depending on their own personal experiences.

When you are a newbie , you need to hear a few interpretations and be challenged to be objective and be sure you are not just taking the easy option.

Most sitches go on for a long period of time and the good thing about looking back on your threads, is how one piece of advice you may have dismissed earlier in your sitch can now be something you relate to and helps you understand better.

This is a really good thread BTW KD and I'm really enjoying checking in on what people are saying.

Bill