thanks denver - that's what i am beginning to realize - you can't force it - you will just know.
it's good to know you followed your instincts alot during your sitch. that should be encouraged here. after BD, the lbs is thrown into such a turmoil that they lose trust in what their instinct tells them to do and only act on their feelings.
it takes a while to trust oneself again - after some inner growth and after many of those stages one goes through, until one can build the self-confidence one needs to move forward.
thanks again denver. so great that you could take this time to come and give your thoughts on these issues. i imagine many many people are reading tis thread right now
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me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"
