so - i don't know if anyone will see this, but are there any vet out there who can help me set some goals here for the following few weeks.

h is ready to file for divorce.

after "snooping" as in others voluntarily giving me info - apparently his A may not work out.

i realize that they could kiss and make-up, in spite of that, so definitely not making a big deal of that in my mind. otoh, if there are any suggestion from vets who have been in that situation and have some insight for me - AND especially help me keep sight of what i should be focused on - it would be very helpful.

thanks
zig

me 46 H 38
M10yrs T 11
S10
BD ow 8/11
h filed 9/25/12


"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"