In my opinion, it's far from too early to employ the tougher stance. from starsky to busting
denver - i believe you read that wrong. from what i understand of this sentence starsky is saying that it is not too early to take the tougher stand to busting
Like I said before, 1) spend a period of time showing WAS that your changes are real, that you are a person only a fool would leave, and that he/she does not have to fear the past; and 2) then take that option away.
and of course the crucial question - when is it time to take that option away? and how do you know it's time?
from where i am presently, my own experience is showing me something new in my feelings toward my sitch. for the longest time - that second part did not exist - it was inconceivable to me.
now i see the first real glimpses of feeling where i know that i could take that option away, eventually. but i also sense that i am not fully there yet.
it is a process to get there, and for the life of me, from where i'm standing ,one has to be one tough cookie to do it any other way.
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"
