Denver, that was one of the best things I've read here in a long time. I think I'm behind you and will need to get to the point where I walk away before things can get better. It's such a painful, painful breaking point to get to, but absent that catalyst I think you can hang in a stalemate for a long time. Thank you so much for posting it!
Accuray
Trust me Accuray, you can hang in the stalemate (limbo) for a very long time. But like you said in another post on this topic, eventually you just don't have the energy to do it.... Your WAS uses up what is in your 'love bank'. I actually used that term with others when I made the decision to walk away from my situation. It is definitely true. But you can't force yourself to get there. It is all a process.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
