Let her start dealing with the types of situations she will deal with the rest of her life. Stay home and start enjoying yourself. Her family will find out eventually so why avoid it?
Personally I see no win out of you going. Just ask yourself what do you gain?
Absolutely agree. What do you have to gain? Nothing. Start showing your W that you are just as done as she has been.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce