Also, H told me that he admitted to this guy at work that he is not capable or smart anymore with bills or finances. "That's what my wife is good at, she built a strong financial foundation for us".

Over the weekend he watched Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. How fitting!

So I'm doomed to be his "caretaker" ?

Maybe that's why he never moved out...he used to say "let me go" as I was telling him to leave. It was like he was shaking his head no, while his mouth was saying yes.

I have moved the savings into an account without his name. Also, I hide the credit cards that are in his name.

Do I really need to be this careful? Guess it doesn't hurt.

The past can't be ahead of you in the future.
You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction.
What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!