Don't have a lot of time right now, just 2 things...
I already have a meditation apt, though it's in 3 months, just in case things with the d move forward. I figured it never hurts...
And as for getting external info- H and I have a mutual friend that would comment on what he is up to, his latest fb post, ect and I asked her to stop. It took me long enough to stop focusing on his actions, I don't need someone undoing that. It took a lot for me to take a stand on that (I did it with everyone who knows us/our sitch), but in the end it was the healthiest thing for me.
Lots o love ziggy pie!
Me-31 H-24 D3,D2 M 4 yrs WAW(me) 12/2011 role reversal 03/2012 (H)PA 3-6/2012 (H)D filed 6/2012 D deemed "inactive", closed 8/2012 I've moved on 9/2012