H just told me that at work last night he blamed me for not see the future and the financial devastation it would have on us. (we are not affected at all by the econ. we just couldn't sell our house, but we still have a home)
He took hold of himself (after the rant) and doesn't blame me, but can't believe it came out of his mouth.
It's hard to heal yourself in the mist of someone else's tornado!
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!