Interesting. Do you know why you felt nervous/uncomfortable? What could they have done to make you feel more comfortable if they knew how you felt?
Hi RoRoinMD- I was nervous because I was supposed to come out in a friend's wedding(april). After separation(aug), I was told that I would be invited to all the parties (bachelorette etc.). Then I was removed from all his friends fb (dec) because I blocked them. I was never invited to anything and felt as if I had done something to them. It was just awkward. I had nothing to talk about with them because we would've talked about the wedding so small talk was very weird. Also, we were never really close. Our talks were girl talks (w the wives) about clothes, movies, etc. Nothing deep.
LITB- Thank you for continuing to follow my thread. Your insight is always appreciated! I can see what you mean which is why H said, oh that's good you ended up feeling comfortable (towards the end). So I guess I started off glim but ended up good. I even made a joke to one of his friends that sorta broke the tension a bit. Looking back, H was having a very very good time. I can tell my presence there helped him enjoy himself even more :-) (but there's that negativity about not being invited to the parties that's really gnawing at me...)
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017
