Kimmerz, First of all I'm happy your comfortable being single and enjoying it. It is a difficult road and its looks like your traveling it well.
As for MLC, believe it that it is that crazy. I remember very little from my MLC but I do remember the day I hit bottom. My opinion is if an MLC'er does not hit bottom they will not get out of the tunnel. Its the opportunity for the MLC to make there way out.
After bottom it took about another 6 months of flatlining then the assent out. My internal life has only gotten better from that point.
Please don't try to understand what your H is going through in MLC. You can't and its not worth. Just pray for him that he gets out.
I am enjoying my singleness as well and its a pleasure reading your thread and how far youve come.
