spoke to my mom about getting a lawyer. she said i should wait until after the mediation and see what h is deciding first and then take that to the L and ask them to look it over.

any thoughts on this?

h also told me that the mediator could talk to me about my rights etc. unfortunately she left that same morning on her holiday so have to wait until after the 13th to talk to her. the appointment with the meidiator is on the 21st.

if anyone here has used a mediator, did you go get a lawyer first anyway or wait until after starting the mediation?

thanks for any advice.

wonder if it's time for me to start a thread on that heading to divorce section... just to get advice

zig

me 46 H 38
M10yrs T 11
S10
BD ow 8/11
h filed 9/25/12


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