second time newcomer, back for more

[NASCARDaddy]

I would agree with Eric on this. Regardless of what she says I would tell her that you understand how she feels but that you need some time to think about it. Don't commit to anything, don't push her to commit to anything, and don't make any rash decisions. You are going to be much better to your family if you figure out what you need and want before you rush into anything.

And yes Eric I understand the irony of me saying that.