Hiya, I've taken a couple of days to really think about what you asked! The housework thing is because it needs doing and she doesn't hardly do any,it did start out as a look at me thing but that was months ago, and I haven't fished for a compliment or a thank you for months either and that was probably only once or twice .But I do feel like I'm her slave at the moment and I am doing 90% of the housework but I've noticed recently she is trying a bit and my plan is to keep giving her positive encouragement when she does and hope she starts doing more in that way. Money is in short supply but I really don't think I'm blamed for that by her, I do feel that she feels equally responsible for it and yeah more money regardless of M is always good!
I'm really trying hard to fulfil her every need, which I'm actually happy to do and don't feel the resentment like I have done in the past.
Like I said a few days ago, I'm round at home nearly all the time now and only come back to where I'm staying to sleep. And TBH my gut feeling is she likes me being around, another example is she comes home straight from work now, whereas in the past she would hang around talking to people for upto an hour and at the worst point admitted she did this to avoid coming home, now she comes straight home. I sometimes wonder if she would prefer me not to go back to where I'm staying at night but isn't ready to say anything yet!
Thank you for your questions, it's making me think 'deeper' again.
