I'm so happy you organized the party, being it out of your comfort zone but did a great job of it and were encouraged.
Idk about H showing you affection. I'm terrible with advice. I hope someone else can give you some. Just wanted you to know I read and appreciated your post.
I think it takes a long time for the WAS to want to show spontaneous affection. Plus your H is definitely depressed sounds like. Is vacation a possibility? I don't remember if you'd said anything about that.
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway