Chatterbug,you could be right...he has a vague notion of what he'll owe in child support (he's paying about that much right now to me by paying most of the rent and utilities on my house). But, when he starts to see the "savings" related to having them more...he may change his tune.

His whole life feels unsustainable unless I cave in and move back to OW's city.


M 44, H 46
D11, D9, D5
Married 12 years
PA confirmed 9/2011
I filed 3/2012
H moved out 7/2012