New to DB

[hopefulinga]

Ok everyone, I need best wished, prayers, thoughts of support, whatever.

I have an issue to discuss with H this evening that would normally send me over the edge. I briefly discussed it over the phone and he said he would explain later.

I went through a script with my mom to be non-accusatory, calm, express my wishes, etc. I am very nervous and afraid I may say the wrong thing and upset him. I am also going to not have the conversation in the room in which we usually fight.