I have heard a lot of talk from some of the veterans about considering your marriage over. I am wondering if that truly makes it easier to detach?

By considering your marriage dead do you act as if you have already gone through the D? Do you treat your S as if you will never get back together? I just wanted to see if I could find some clarificaton.


Me:27 W:30
S1:3y/o S2:8m/o
T:5
M:3
Bomb:5/16/12
W moved out:5/16/12