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[ericmsant2]

BC

I'm so scared

I know man…but try not to be.

Here’s the thing….why are you so scared?

Have you put HER on a pedestal?

Are you afraid you will never be with her again?

Are you afraid that YOU can’t fix this?

Like I'm reliving our separation

RIGHT NOW YOU ARE NOT. The more you tell yourself this the more afraid you will be.

so we went to dinner, then for a walk where we just enjoyed (I hope) each others company, and then came home to a quiet house on the couch to watch a tv show.

Dinner was good (assuming SHE wanted that) and a walk is good. What did you talk about? Coming home to a quiet house and watching TV is also good SOMETIMES….I find coming home and playing strip poker with my lady is much more fun 

Bad….have you researched “Attraction” at all?

I'm nervous the longer she waits to go, the deal is sealed

This type of thinking will make DBing VERY VERY hard. Go for a walk man…get your emotions under control. Okay?

If she senses (and trust me Women are very good at that) that you are scared, nervous, fearful….well then she may (I am not her) question how YOU FEEL about YOURSELF and YOUR CONFIDENCE.

I feel like by backing off and giving space I'm giving space for someone else to move closer

DB101 – change how you LOOK at things…. YOU FEEL like you are giving space for someone else. That is NOT what may be happening.