The only hobbies I have are my iPhone, and I've been playing guitar for 15 years
What OTHER hobbies do you WANT?
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Her parents seem to think she's incredibly stressed out about her job and school.
Then DO NOT PUSH HER….
Also earlier in your post you mentioned that your friend said that you may be overeacting, which may or may not be the case.
When we say to back off are you really giving her space while also trying to be out and about OR are you still in the house with her but in a different room?
I asked because based on her age, and based on what I interpret as her being a student, employee, mom and wife she actually may be feeling totally stressed out.
It appears that you live in NJ (do did I for a while) so add to the above the stresses of living in a busy city and chit dude, it may be a lot for someone that is 27 to handle.
I think you need to continue to give her space and also try and find some time for just the TWO of YOU. What hobbies or interest does she have? Has she ever said to you what she NEEDED in a partner? Do you meet those needs?
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
