Again, completely understandable.

I do have a question though... regarding the following...

Originally Posted By: vera be fierce
I now see more clearly the impact of red flags I ignored early on.


What red flags would those be:

+ ones that told you that your H was a low life and your M was a sham... grin (jk)

or...

+ ones that would have helped make you aware of problems earlier on so that you could have acted sooner on and maybe have prevented this mess in the first place? cool