True and fair, Harrier. I don't advocate snooping. It might be a type of addiction - ironically without the feel good reward. It was definately a sign of insecurity and something I had to get over before making progress. It never progressed past reading open browser windows or seeing who had called her.....but, to be honest, I'm not sure I could have moved on to DBing without it. My own personal weakness. Not feeling the need to snoop is a great relief, which I took as a sign of progress about a year ago.
