Just catching up here... well, just skimmed. Looks like some really good perspectives. I'll be going through this after work tonight.
I just want to put a strong disclaimer in here right now to all the newbies and others who are reading and absorbing the material, here.
Take everything here with a grain of salt. Each one of us has our own beliefs and moral compasses, if you will. It is ALWAYS your choice to proceed with or without DB, in a strict or relaxed way. This discussion is and was intended to be strictly for providing differing interpretations and opinions to "by the book" DB approaches, especially in regards to infidelity.
This IS a DB specific and focused forum and as is often stated here by the mods:
