WAW Spouce wife says she is not in love with me.

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No I don't want to cut ties. They don't understand what she is doing and know she is making a mistake as well. My mil called me on my birthday and my fil I can call and helps me with my car since he is my mechanic. I know its not fair to my kids either. I was thinking of calling them and seeing about bringing kids over for dinner. Its just hard when I am with them and they know how much I still love her.

She emailed me last night regarding her getting ready to go back to work and how we will handle our kids. then she hit me with this. {On another note - how long are we going to keep this going for? At this point, neither one of us has been protected financially or legally from anything the other is doing and it just feels as though we are both stuck at this point. Thoughts?}

My answer was this {I thought you were getting the agreement together that is what I was waiting for. In all honesty condo, other then the mortgage, is yours I don't care about it. You keep paying for it I am fine. I am still trying to lower the interest rate as well. The Harp program is a little weird and the banks don't have a good handle on it yet. Do we need to sit down again? I have all my bills I am covering YMCA family, his after care as well as Ruth}

Her response today {so I guess real quickly that covers the logistical and tangible things. but that doesn't address the marriage}

My response {You know where I stand, what I have done and what I am trying to do. I don't want to talk about this via email.}

One of my kids bday presents to me was a car my w bought from the movie cars 2. it was Mel Dorado and the only reason she bought it was the first name was the same as my fathers.

She wants me to drop the axe and I won't do it. This is what she wanted from the get go. I realized she wanted this when we started couples counseling last year before I moved out. She gave up while I still try to hold on.