One thing you could do if you want to validate -- you typically have 30 days to return a new device with no penalty. If you still have your old Blackberry, consider returning the new phone and go back to the old one. Don't say anything about it, let her eventually notice.
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Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015