I'm a new person

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You have some opportunities to present yourself in a positive light. What are you going to do with them? Hopefully make the most of them.

Here's something for you to ponder regarding the above question:

Let's say you had a jar containing a certain amount of marbles that represent your "opportunities". Obviously we don't know how many marbles you'll have, but let's say 25 for arguments sake.

After each interaction with your H, you have to remove one, then put it into one of two jars. The first, representing a "positive interaction" and the second representing a "missed opportunity/negative interaction".

Obviously the goal is the get all of your marbles into the "positive interaction" jar. This way you know that you did everything within YOUR control to affect the outcome positively.

Hope this helps.