Interpretation of MWD and DR regarding infidelity

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KD, I wasn't posting from the perspective that exposure was the right course, I was just saying "here's another opinion, what do you think of this?" Just wanted to be clear where I stand.

Here's how I think about it -- chances are when your spouse leaves they harbor some deep resentments toward you. Exposing their affair is definitely going to make them resent you more, so to me it seems overall destructive -- it very well may help to end the affair faster, but probably pushes your spouse farther away emotionally in the process and therefore makes it harder to ultimately reconcile.

That's how I think about it, but I'm open to being convinced otherwise.

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