Funny too... because I went that route and my W never did try to reconnect with me... so I guess I missed out on the part of the technique which is standing strong about no R until the OP is gone... lol...
KD,
As Theoden stated recently in a really incredible post, NOTHING works ALL THE TIME. All we can do is try the methods that give us the BEST chance of (in this case) ending an affair, and reconciling the marriage.
I personally do believe in some of the other techniques, and think people would be wise to study the various methods and do what THEY think is best for their situation. But I also respect that we are here at MWD's courtesy, and so I therefore try not to advocate things that are anti-DB.
Learned something new... 
