Rough, Man I hate to hear that she went off on you like that. For my money, that text was more for her than for you. I think often times its the push back b/c they like what they see but it confuses them. Very similar to when things are going well and then one day out of the blue their pissed about something....I think often what their pissed about is seeing good in you and not liking it. And im not here to justify our wives behavior, but remember to that they took a long time getting to the point of seperation/divorce, sometimes years, and then a few months later they see you changing and it honestly makes them angry. My wife told me as much one time, and also told me that it made her mad b/c if I was willing to change now then I knew how i should have treated her all along and didnt.
Obviously I thought I was treating her well...I can look back and tell you now that wasn't true, but in the moment I thought we were good. Let her be mad and like Denver and others said....theres nothing in that text to respond to so just let that dog lie. Go find the letter from the WAW to the LBS on Denvers thread and read it.....read it often, it helped me alot and gave me more perspective. Just remember its a roller coaster mine did a similar thing to me just last night....im gonna post about it later this morning, but she was just mad in general, but I was an easy one to direct it toward so I caught some of it....i let it roll and she actually texted me back later like it never happened....which is about as close to apologizing as she's gonna do right now...I let it go and we've moved on. Stay strong my friend your doing the right things.
