It's time for me to spread my wings a bit in this sitch.
Now that's some good thinking.
Zig, this one year mark has us both getting the same feeling:
"i've taken every opportunity to be there so i could show h my changes etc - and suddenly i'm finding i'm not sure i want those occasions any longer.. "
Our H's look like they're going through with filing regardless. So it sure is time for us to spread our wings.
Let's hear more of you getting out and about with new friends/doing new things. I'll try to keep pace. There's a big world out there waiting for us.