I am sorry but I don’t remember who wrote this, I believe it was either accuray or denver.
"I've told you before that I still love you and still think that we can have a great life together as both a couple and a family. I have not changed my mind on that. But I understand that you are not happy, that you don't feel happy or complete inside. You need to do what will make you happy. By my side, we can be partners and will share everything and we would do anything to help one another. But that's only if we continue as a team but I won't stand in your way, however I also won't help you leave this marriage or our family. I hope you do find the happiness you’re looking for. Go do what you need to do. You know where I will be."
Is this maybe a premature response for now? I am thinking this is a needed response only when it gets to that “final hour stage” which I am not at right now.
