Hey rough, just leave it... at least for now. Your email stated that you'd let her know by tuesday morning about your availability on saturday. follow up on that.

Leave the text. There is nothing in it that needs to be responded to. Her only question was rhetorical.

She vented for what ever reason she vented. She had her reason and you will likely never know. But it's her reason and not yours to own the spew.

Breathe and relax...