I totally understand where you are coming from. I agree that some lawyers can be jerks. I'm the same way, if it comes to divorce for us I want it to be as civil as possible. No crazy lawyer stuff. I don't know but maybe they have mediation specific to military situations. I hope things work out for you and your H. I feel the same way about my H, I want this to work but if it does we really need to figure out how to do this M thing better. I have a soft spot in my heart for the military, combat wounded get a little more slack in my book. I suspect my H has PTSD that's been un-diagnosis for a couple of decades. He isn't interested in hearing that from me thought. Best of luck to you.


lillystillinlove
M:43 H:49
T:17 M:16
S:6
Bomb: 1/27/12 EA+ with close married family friend / ILYBINILWY
H moved out 7/27/12
H is Extremely angry, stressed and unable to forgive