"Amelie, I don't know how to get those papers (meaning the D papers)..." I told him "listen I don't want to talk about those things specially by phone, so come tomorrow to see the little one, have a good night"
Good job diverting that conversation. If your H wants a divorce he needs to do the work. I made the mistake of getting svcked into H's anxiety and out of control spinning and did every single bit of the work required for a separation I didn't want. Don't make my mistake.
One or two of the vets will have a suggestion for what to say when your H says he doesn't know how to get the D papers.
All the best. Seems like you're doing OK.
me 45 H 46 T 5 M 2.5 BD Sept 6 2011 OW Sept 8 2011 Threw him out Sept 8 2011
