Hey guys,
I enjoyed organising the party and it was a big 180 for me. H has always loved entertaining but I have never been very confident. I'ts never been a strong point of mine. So it was just as much for me as him. I found it a challenge and did a really good job of it. Go me!

Friendship aspect here is going well. One of my goals is for H is to show me small gestures of affection. Still nothing. I occasionally reach out to him in a non-threatening way. But no moves from him. Any suggestions from you wise DB'ers?