A New Phase?

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I think if the cheater doesn't end the affair once it's out in the open...it's very hard to predict how any strategy will work.

So, H had the kids from Friday evening to Saturday evening. I had a couple plans with friends, went to a farmers market, did a run, etc. While he had them, he texted to tell me that OW and her kids will be in town in a few weeks. Could he take our kids to meet her and her kids at an amusement park? I said we needed to talk about it...of course when he dropped off the kids, he ran out without a word. He also asked if "we" could buy a boat to keep at his new place (share it with a friend). I said, "are you saying I would buy it with you?" He said "No, I just wanted to run it by you".

I'm not in favor of him introducing the kids to OW, but I am also not sure how long I can stop it or that he won't do something else that's dumb around it. I may also use it as leverage to help us get things negotiated more quickly.

So, as much as he seems "mopey", he's moving on. Frankly, I'm okay with it. I'm tired of the weirdness and drama.