Ahh the easy path of good intentions.

Stand your ground.

Maybe one of these days you should think about taking some control of your life. Instead of having it all dictated for you.

IMHO. The affair family vacation never works. Nor does having family members interfere. If my MIL asked that with wife and BIL there. I would have politely told her to stuff it. And told them to leave. Then I would have informed wife that no one ever gets a pass to disrespect the family. Then I would have left that truth dart hang there in silence. Shake the head and walk away. Then if there was any grumbling of a thank you. I would have replied. Yes it should go both ways. But it does not.

Pick yourself up.

Do you have that VAR yet ?


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